Today’s woman has a lot going on. Career women are finding it hard being lovers to their husbands, mothers to their children, and the best at work. It takes every bit of their being to be able to give at least 70% of themselves.
Whichever way life goes, in the end, you have to give the best of yourself to the life you are given. That said, nothing should ever stop you from looking sexy no matter how bad life is going.
Even on the bad days, you better show up for your man better than you did yesterday. Men have it rough too. May they come back home to a sexy woman ready to comfort them.
Get me right, it takes two to tangle but someone has got to make the first move. If both of you get home and all you want to do is play parents instead of taking care of each other first, forget good sex and a happy home.
Being a mother doesn't take away the fact that you were a girlfriend before. What happened to the lady who looked sexy at home? What happened to the lady who planned date nights? When was the last time you made your man cum without making him do all the work?
What happened to the man who dressed up and took his woman on a date? What happened to the man who wouldn't spend an hour without texting the love of his life? When was the last time you looked at your wife and told her how much you love her?
Yes, children become part of your everyday routine but who then will take care of you when all is said and done? Parenthood doesn't take away romance. The two people involved do. Children will grow. But it is better when the romance between their parents never fades away.
Women forget that they have those children because a man provided the seed. No way you forget all about the factory after getting the product. Take care of that factory because at some point it is the only thing you had.
The sex life before children is everything that makes people very happy. It's a bit tricky when children come but it should be even more exciting. The sex should now become quickies. At every turn of privacy, there should be intimacy.
A woman should be lubricated at all times. At least moist. So that when he gets hard, it is easy to just slide in. The house should have spots for quickies before someone yells mummy or daddy. This is how we will save the world that has become so unhappy.
Happiness begins at home. It is sad to see people praying for work days so that they are able to leave the house. People are supposed to pray for their days to go faster so that they can go back home.
It is unfortunate that most marriages are surviving because man and woman are getting some on the side. As a man when you start stepping out, know that soon your woman will start doing the same.
So to save the universe and the institution of marriage bring back the sex. Bring back the hot steamy sex styles that made the other person save your number in their phone with the name “Love Of My Life”.
Hubby or Wifey are actually not love names saved in your contact list. Those are identifiers. Title if you must. Most probably so that whoever sees them call knows that it is a must-pick and under total silence.
So make your home sexy. Take your person on those dates. Explore sex styles. Bring out the whore in your person no matter how many kids have come out of them.
Till next time, bring it on Maama!