Motherhood is the most amazing thing on earth. Having a mini you in the world. It is wonderful. Whichever way that baby comes into the world, as long as it comes from you, it makes you a parent.
Being a mother is hard work. Especially when the baby has just come into the world. You feel like nothing else matters but that child. And as it should be. But it shouldn't put the whole world around you on hold. Hear me out.
The moment women learn that they are pregnant, so many pieces on the board move. With some, hormones reject their men. They just can't be around him. In some women, hormones crave him. He has to be right there or nowhere.
Depending on where your woman falls, you might go about six months without getting some. She will come up with all kinds of excuses and eventually, you might have to even exit the bedroom and find somewhere else to sleep.
Sometimes if she was looking for a reason to separate the bedrooms, she will use the pregnancy to get rid of you. Women will take advantage of anything. And it gets worse if she has always suspected that you are a cheat. This will act as your punishment. Which is utter nonsense.
If the hormones do not reject you, you will have to be on call 24/7 as and when she wants you. This is not as good as it sounds. It is about her. She will ride you and will hate you right after. But after all, is said and done, a man will need to feed.
Being pregnant doesn't mean that he stops wanting some. There is something about pregnant women. That body is so warm in and out that most men can't help but want more and more. If you can, give your man every time. It doesn't hurt.
Let the pregnancy bond you in more ways than just being parents. Give it to him like you never have. You have nine months without the monthly visitor. Give it to him. You are already raising a mini him inside. It can't be that hard.
After giving birth, don't make your whole life about that baby. Take care of where that baby came from. Don't forget the toad that led you to the now “love of your life”. There is more where that came from.
Don't push your man away even if all he wants is to make sure that you don't lose him. Give him time to enjoy you. When the baby takes a nap, they will get back in and ride your man.
Don't hurt your man by saying things that don't make sense. Don't push him away by saying he doesn't understand how your body feels after birth. You also don't know how he feels carrying that hard machine gun around. Don't pity him but do your part.
Children are amazing. But most men start cheating when their woman is pregnant or after she has given birth. Don't say you were not warned.
Till next time, give it to him.