A lockdown is stressful. It comes with a financial burden that one might not necessarily understand. This financial burden affects so many aspects of one’s life, and sex is one of them.
Let’s try and understand that the country needs this and maybe so do our sex lives. And yes, I know how frustrated you might be, but let’s make the best out of it.
Let’s have a minute and enjoy each other. Let’s explore all those sex styles we have been playing in our mind. And maybe it will not be as bad as it sounds.
Let us use the 42 days to address our partner’s sexual desires and needs. Let us have that sex talk that you have in your head during the act when they are not getting it right.
You have 42 days to teach your person how to touch you. You have 42 days to teach him how you like it. It is very sad to marry someone, and you do not know how to satisfy them. A lifetime is a long time to go.
After discussing and coming up with a plan on how you will survive these 42 days, and yes, it is very important that you talk this through, have a minute and ask your partner how you have been performing in the bedroom.
It is time for the review. Ask them if you have been meeting your bedroom expectations. Do not let them off easily. Insist on how important it is for you to talk. It is okay. In the next 42 days, you have enough for silent treatment and makeup sex.
Sex is an art. It takes time to master that art. But it takes more time to find someone open-minded and willing to explore with you.
Sex talk is a real thing. It is not sex education. It is when you decide to dissect your sex life with the person you are laying with.
The time invested in the art of sex goes beyond anything that is the actual act. Your partner might not know what foreplay is. Or that it is necessary. You have a few days to make it right. You have a few days to teach them.
The build-up for sex. The way you ready your partner should be enough to get them weak in the knees before getting on their knees to take you to heaven.
There is nothing like perfect sex. There are mind-blowing orgasms, and these can not be every day. The sex will be so good when the relationship is young and new.
But as days go by, you feel you have mastered their body and can make them cum with your eyes closed. This is good but not good enough. There is so much you can do with someone’s body.
There are things you want to be done to your body, and now it is time to explore. I mean, you have 42 days to try and work out some of these things.
When you decide that you are taking on someone’s child for the rest of their life, be sure that you will be there for them sexually as much as in everything else.
For better or worse is not just the financial bit. It also caters for the bad sex days. But you will never know how bad you were until someone is kind enough to let you know.
It is all about being open to talking about it. Let them strip your sex game. Allow them to remove the gloves, and that is the only way you will address what you never really knew about.
Till next time, you will be surprised that sometimes they are mourning instead of moaning.