By Ms Mink
Routine in anything we do in life creates boredom. At work, with friends; even down to the food we eat. How we have sex is no exception. Doing the same the say way over and over will eventually lead to one partner being less interested in what was originally meant to be a beautiful act.
And while I do appreciate that sex and its discussion is often thought of as a taboo, the reality is that many adults are having it. From the moments of I do, blood still boils hot and the urge to be with your partner is more often than not more natural. But along the way comes children, familiarity from spending waking mornings with the same person and sadly sex becomes a routine. Part of the reason you got married in the first place. Or just another act to please your partner.
Missionary as a position is as old as the persons they are named after. And no one is taking away the fact that it may be your favorite position, but for crying out loud, can you do something different to surprise if not your partner then you. And you do not have to be the world’s most physically fit person to try out new things.
It can start with a change of location. Plan a night out, go to a hideout. A hotel, a nice lodge, a gate away. A change in location could actually surprise you. When the mind is away from distractions, the body can react in ways you never imagined.
Do not live in a box with your mindset stuck on what you are used to or rather what you consider safe. The karma sutra is an ancient Indian Sanskrit text on sexuality and emotional fulfillment in life. This is a good reference you can use as you try and venture into new territories. Spice up your relationship and sex life with hot new sex positions and styles. New things do not necessarily require you to be a gymnast, just an open mind.
Here are my top 5 sex positions that you should try out:
1. Cow girl also known as woman on top. More or less self-explanatory, the cowgirl is a great way to stimulate the g spot and put her in control and boy oh boy do we all know how much women love to take charge.
2. Spin cycle. More like a hot seat, this position will have her seated on your lap. It gives you great advantage to try out in various places away from the bed. On the fridge, in the living room or even in the car.
3. Reverse cowgirl. Much like girl on top, but with the female facing your toes. This gives a man a great view of a female’s rear side. The female controls the depth of penetration and pace with this particular style.
4. The anvil also commonly known as the shoulder holder. Here, the female lies on her back and places her legs on the males shoulder. This gives room for deep penetration and eye contact during intercourse.
5. The flatiron. This is an upgrade from the usual doggy. The females is on her knees with her backside to the male. He however bends over more and raises her hips higher giving the male deeper penetration.